Divorce is an inherently emotional and stressful process, but for some, it can also be fraught with fear and danger. If you feel unsafe during this challenging time, it is critical to prioritize your safety and take decisive steps to protect yourself. At the Law Offices of Michael A. Robbins, we understand how overwhelming this can feel, but you don’t have to face this alone. Below are practical strategies, legal protections, and resources to ensure your well-being throughout the divorce process.
Create a Safety Plan – A safety plan is a personalized and practical guide that outlines steps to protect yourself from harm. This plan should include:
- Emergency Contacts: Keep a list of trusted friends, family, or neighbors who can help if needed. Save their contact information in an accessible location.
- Safe Locations: Identify places you can go to if you feel threatened, whether it’s a friend’s home or a local shelter.
- Secure Documents and Essentials: Collect important documents, such as financial records and your ID, and pack a bag with essentials like medications, keys, and clothing. Keep these items in a secure but accessible place.
- Code Words: Establish a code word with trusted contacts so they can understand when you need help without explicitly stating it.
A well-thought-out safety plan is essential in both preventing and responding to unsafe situations.
Seek a Protective Order
If your safety is threatened, pursuing a protective order can provide crucial legal protection. Common options include:
- Personal Protection Orders (PPOs): These orders prohibit an individual from contacting or approaching you. Violations can cause legal consequences for the offender.
- Restraining Orders: If there is a risk of harassment or violence, a restraining order can restrict the other party’s actions.
To obtain these orders, you will need to file a petition with the court and provide evidence of the threat, such as documentation of threats, police reports, or witness testimony. An attorney can guide you through this process and help ensure the order is tailored to your specific needs.
Engage Your Support System
Divorce is never a path you have to walk alone, especially when your safety is a concern. Reach out to:
- Trusted Friends and Family: Share your concerns with people you trust. They can provide emotional support, temporary housing, or simply a listening ear.
- Professional Counselors: A therapist who specializes in domestic issues can help you cope with the emotional challenges of divorce and build confidence in your decision-making.
- Community Resources: Many communities provide shelters, hotlines, and advocacy services for individuals in unsafe situations. Look into these options to find additional layers of support.
Your network can play a crucial role in helping you regain stability during this time.
Consult with an Experienced Family Law Attorney
Navigating safety concerns during a divorce requires legal insight and strategic planning. At the Law Offices of Michael A. Robbins, we are dedicated to protecting your rights and advocating for your safety. We can:
- Help you file protective orders.
- Provide guidance on child custody arrangements when safety is a factor.
- Assist in securing financial protections to ensure your independence.
- Work with the courts to address any threats made during the divorce process.
Our extensive experience in family law means we can help you make informed decisions that prioritize your well-being.
Contact Us
Your safety is paramount. If you feel at risk during your divorce, take immediate steps to protect yourself, including creating a safety plan, securing a protective order, and leaning on your support network. Most importantly, consult with a family law attorney who can help you understand your rights and options. At the Law Offices of Michael A. Robbins, we are committed to standing by your side and providing the legal guidance and compassion you need during this difficult time.
If you have concerns about your safety or need assistance, please contact us for a confidential consultation. Remember, you are not alone—help is available.