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Can I Refuse Parenting Time if My Ex Doesn’t Pay Child Support?

by | Oct 14, 2025 | Family Law |

Dealing with unpaid child support is frustrating and can place a financial strain on you and your child. When payments are missed, it is natural to feel that the other parent is not holding up their end of the bargain. A common reaction is to consider withholding parenting time until the support is paid. However, it is crucial to understand the legal implications of this action.

Here are the key points to remember:

  • Two Separate Issues: In Michigan, child support and parenting time are treated as two distinct legal matters.
  • Legal Consequences: Withholding court-ordered parenting time can result in legal penalties for you, including being held in contempt of court.
  • The Child’s Best Interest: The court’s primary focus is always on the child’s right to have a relationship with both parents.
  • Proper Legal Action: There are specific legal channels to enforce child support orders without resorting to denying visitation.

The Law Offices of Michael A. Robbins, a trusted family law firm, can provide you with legal guidance and support during the enforcement process. We understand that child custody issues are emotionally taxing, and we are here to help you navigate the legal system.

Is It Legal to Deny Visitation for Unpaid Child Support?

A frequent question we hear is, “Is it legal to deny visitation for unpaid child support?” The answer in Michigan is a clear no. Parenting time is a right that belongs to the child, intended to foster a strong relationship with both parents. Child support is a separate financial obligation. One cannot be used as leverage against the other. Denying your ex-partner their court-ordered parenting time not only undermines the court’s authority but can also harm your child emotionally by placing them in the middle of a parental conflict.

What Are My Rights if Child Support Isn’t Being Paid?

If you are not receiving court-ordered child support, you have legal rights and specific enforcement tools at your disposal. Instead of withholding parenting time, you should take official legal action. Michigan’s legal system provides several ways to enforce a child support order.

The Friend of the Court (FOC) office in your county is responsible for helping enforce these orders. Actions they can take include:

  • Income Withholding: The FOC can issue an order to automatically deduct child support from the paying parent’s wages.
  • Tax Refund Interception: State and federal tax refunds can be intercepted to cover past-due support.
  • License Suspension: Driver’s licenses, professional licenses, and recreational licenses can be suspended for non-payment.
  • Contempt of Court: The FOC can file a motion to have the non-paying parent held in contempt of court, which can lead to fines or even jail time.

The Importance of Following Legal Protocols

Taking matters into your own hands by denying visitation can damage your credibility in court and may lead to a judge modifying the existing custody or parenting time order in a way that is not in your favor. It is always better to work within the legal system to resolve these issues. An experienced family law attorney can help you file the necessary motions and represent your interests to ensure the child support order is enforced correctly.

Contact an Attorney for Help

At the Law Offices of Michael A. Robbins, we understand the financial and emotional stress that comes with these situations. Our approach is to provide clear, effective legal strategies to enforce your rights while always prioritizing the well-being of your child. If you are facing unpaid child support, contact us to discuss the proper legal steps to secure the financial support your child deserves without jeopardizing your parenting time arrangement.