After years or decades of marriage, it can be difficult to know whether divorce is a good idea or if you should continue trying to work on your marriage. Many Michigan residents remain together for the sake of their children, even if this is not the best decision for the family in the long run. Other parties remain married because they are simply unsure if divorce is the right choice, or the best choice, for them based on their circumstances. If you are considering the possibility of divorce or wondering if divorce is right for you, it is important to seek advice from a Michigan divorce lawyer who can discuss the details of Michigan divorce law with you. In the meantime, the following are some of the common circumstances in which divorce is a good idea.
You Have Stopped Communicating with Your Spouse
If you have stopped communicating with your spouse—even if you are not arguing or fighting—it might be time to consider the possibility of divorce. A lack of communication can be one of the biggest problems in a divorce.
You Feel Angry or Resentful Toward Your Spouse
Feeling angry or resentful is no way to live. It may be time to consider a divorce.
Lack of Intimacy
Lack of intimacy, either sexual or emotional, can be a sign of a significant problem in a marriage. If you have not been able to resolve the issue of a lack of intimacy, it may be a good idea to consider divorce.
You are Only Together Because of the Kids
If you are only remaining married for the kids, it is important to remember that your own mental health and happiness are important, and that they reflect on your children, too. Even if you think it is best for your kids that you stay married, your children ultimately may fare better in the long run if you are divorced and happy.
Too Much Drama
Too much drama in a marriage can be a strong reason to consider divorce.
You Have Tried Marriage Counseling
If you have tried marriage counseling and it has failed, you may want to begin thinking through the possibility of a divorce.
You Imagine Your Life After Divorce
When you start to imagine your life after a divorce, and to imagine with some relief what your life could look like if your marriage ended, that is often an indicator that divorce may be a good idea for you.
Violence or Abuse in the Marriage
Nobody should have to deal with violence or abuse in a marriage. While leaving can be complicated and worrying, a lawyer can help you to learn about your options.
Contact Our Michigan Divorce Attorneys
Do you need assistance considering the benefits and limitations of divorce based on your circumstances? An experienced Michigan divorce attorney at our firm can speak with you today about your case. Do not hesitate to get in touch with us to find out more about the services we provide to clients who are thinking about divorce in Michigan. Contact the Law Offices of Michael A. Robbins today to learn more.
