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Tips for Talking to Your Kids About Divorce

by | Dec 19, 2023 | Family Law |

Divorce is an emotionally challenging time for everyone involved, and breaking the news to children can be particularly daunting. It’s important to handle this delicate situation with care. Here are some tips from the experienced team at the Law Offices of Michael A. Robbins on how to approach this difficult conversation.

Choosing the Right Time

Timing is critical when discussing divorce with your children. It’s advised not to rush into this conversation. Waiting for a calm, quiet moment where there is enough time to address the topic fully is crucial. This allows you to provide the necessary comfort and reassurance that your children may need during this time.

Using Age-Appropriate Language

Understanding your child’s perspective is key. Tailoring the conversation to match their level of comprehension will help them understand the situation better. For younger children, simpler explanations might work best, while older children may require more detailed explanations.

Addressing Their Concerns

Children often blame themselves for their parents’ divorce. Assure them that it’s not their fault and this decision was made between adults due to adult problems. Encourage them to express their feelings and concerns, validate their emotions, and provide comforting reassurance.

Providing Stability and Support

Even amidst changes, maintaining routines can provide a sense of stability for your children. Reiterate that both parents love them unconditionally and will continue to be there for them.

Seeking Professional Help

Sometimes, seeking help from professionals such as therapists or counselors can be beneficial. They can provide helpful strategies and support in navigating through these challenging times. It’s essential to ensure that your child has a safe space to express their feelings.

Co-Parenting Communication

It’s important to present a united front when discussing this topic with your children. Agreeing on how much information to disclose and maintaining consistent messaging can help alleviate confusion or misunderstandings for your children. Effective co-parenting communication can also help ease the transition for your children during this time.

Contact an Experienced Divorce Attorney

At The Law Offices of Michael A. Robbins, we understand the emotional turmoil that comes with divorce. With over 30 years of experience in family law, our team is dedicated to guiding clients through this difficult process with compassion and professionalism. We have helped countless families in Michigan navigate the complexities of divorce and child custody disputes. 

Talking to your kids about divorce is not an easy task. However, with careful planning, open communication, and the right support, it can be managed effectively. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Our experienced team at The Law Offices of Michael A. Robbins is here to help you navigate through this challenging time. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and learn how we can assist you and your family. Together, we can create a positive outcome for everyone involved. With the right approach and support, they can successfully navigate through this tough transition and thrive in the future.